5ISTERS (:

Monday, January 29, 2007

yeah! he agreed after i tried to persuade and bug him for umpteen times!
anyway, chiang mai is really safe as
we are going to karen hill tribe (on the hill of cuz)
and it's pretty ooloo so i dun think anyone would wanna bomb us. haha.

Why do you let it slip right pass you?
Is it because there are other things on your mind that are occupying
your thoughts and mind?
actually i also dily daliy at times and not getting my work done.
but if you dun mind my small and boney hand, i'm willing to lend it to u!
we all yi qi jia you k? kempatie nehz

From chicky's blog, what me and her learnt about anger, intimacy and relationship.
They are so true so take time to read and ponder over it!

The unconditional love we received in the past can sometimes
sustain us through the knots of life.

Fight the odds and overcome the adversity with unending
courage and perseverance.

It is much easier for us to pick up a magnifying glass than a mirror.

Anger often leads to conflict and conflict can be a key to a healthy
stronger and more intimate relationship, when expressed in an healthy manner.

Woman say sorry for making connection and empathizing with party.
Men apologize when in the wrong.

Differences are what provide depth and breadth
to a relationship.
Our differences can turn a black and white
relationship into living color.

The purifying process of disagreement. Example gold- if too hot,
it will disintegrate. If too cold, impurities will not surface.

Until it is brought to be heated at a right temperature, then
only will the gold be perfected and pure. The process is long and tedious
but worth it. Illustration of life. .

The greater our love for someone, the greater our capacity to
experience a wide range of emotions in connection with that person.
(that's for all of us!)

The more dependent and vulnerable to someone you are, the
more likely he or she will be the object of your hostility as well as your affection.
Marriage and family living generate in normal people more anger
than people experience in any other social situation.

People in healthy relationships argue and disagree. The difference is
that their disagreements result in increased understanding. Trust and
security. They reflect a mutual respect, given the inevitability of anger
in all relationships. The question is not whether to express it. But how
and when, healthy ways to express and deal with each others anger.

Learning to handle disagreement conflict and anger is a key part of the
process of becoming one. Disagreements in a relationship are inevitable
and a fundamental part of achieving intimacy.

Real people in real relationships who are actively working toward
figuring out what it means to live together while remaining an individual-
they experience disagreement conflict and anger.

As you become more vulnerable, the risks increase. As the risks increase
the fears increase. As the stakes rise, the anger wont be far behind.

Unmet needs, unfulfilled expectations and unrealized dreams had increased their disappointment with the relationship. Add a few misunderstandings and some miscommunications and they had the perfect recipe for frustration and anger.

We try to close the door on what has been. But all we do is suppress the
dragons of memory. Every so often the rap persistently and want to
come out into our consciousness for a dress rehearsal in preparation
for a new situation. Renunciation of our memories sounds so very pious.
The only thing with it is that it will not work.

When anger disappointment sadness becomes too intense, emotional
numbness and alienation set in. you create a wall to keep the person out,
but it keeps you locked up too. The wall also locks in your love.

My mummy's new hairstyle. quite stylomilo

Blursze

3:54 PM